WHAT IS CHEMISTRY IN LOVE & ATTRACTION ?

I have been trying to study , analyze and understand what CHEMISTRY is  to Attraction and eventually to Falling in love. FYI , Chemistry is a two-way street . The feeling needs to happen between two people in mutual understanding whether they spoke about it or not yet.

CHEMISTRY although it makes a nerdy girl like me day dreaming, giddying up and down or weak in the knees everytime I think of my Crush , But Ohhh Boy ,The feeling should not be a dead-end one way street. Cupid needs to send the arrows his way too. Obviously. CHEMISTRY is not a form of OBSESSION unless both parties feel the same feeling with each other. Get It ???

This blog is just a Nerdy Girl Research okay ?? My very own compilation as I am still trying very hard to understand the concept of LOVE and CHEMISTRY. What can I Say? I am a late bloomer 😅😅😅  But Based on what I read .... here we go ....

CHEMISTRY is some kind of crazy feeling that this universe can only understand. Chemistry is that  out -of- this- world unspoken and unexplainable attraction between two people. Chemistry plays an important part all thru the stages of Romance, Dating, Sex,

Falling in Love and  Long Term Relationships.

CHEMISTRY can be strongly felt by two people who like each other even thru across the room. And as they say, Sometimes that crazy unspoken attraction can also be felt by the crowd or the people around you.

CHEMISTRY is a feeling of knowing , of crazy butterflies , breathless moments and goosebumps.

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Like Magic ,CHEMISTRY cannot be forced. It can only happen between two people who wants to fall in love and be together. CHEMISTRY is also that same burning feeling of desire that you need to have SEX  that is , if you want it to be memorable and meaningful.

CHEMISTRY is not just for SEX . It helps make you feel connected knowing that you are compatible . Like you just know that you were a match made in heaven.

Most importantly , CHEMISTRY gives you that most sweetest, breathless, heart stopping undeniable feeling especially when you realize that you are falling in love. It is the most essential ingredient in ROMANCE, MARRIAGE and the most sweetest LOVE STORIES of all time.

CHEMISTRY is when Two Empty Souls find each other in a world full of strangers. Like you just know in some insane way that you belong together. Only Heaven knows , but without CHEMISTRY , it will be quite difficult to Fall in Love. CHEMISTRY holds the magic bond to glue two people together.

LIPSTICK. A SINGLE GIRL'S BEST FRIEND !

Hey Girl. Hey Single Girl! Did you know that there's one magical thing in the world that can make you feel better and VA VA Boom FABULOUS? It's LIPSTICK !!! Who cares what the world says? Put some lipstick on. The pinker The redder it gets , the better!!!!

LIPSTICK is every girls bestfriend ! A magical war paint with a blast of moisturizer and colors . Especially if you've been single for a while , or have recently broken up. No problem . Let's go to the mall or the nearby drug store & buy some lipstick! It's time to wake up that inner sexy diva - vixen inside you . When you look good. You feel good. https://youtu.be/LTLQVshSdXI

Why spend your lonely nights hiding under your blankets , crying your eyes out ? Or if you were like me , Why waste empty years on a Dry Spell & living like a hermit ? Girl Please...... It's time to get the keys ,open the locks and embrace change !!! And Yes u heard me. CHANGE . We fear change. We don't like change but guess what when you're going down on a rabbit hole faster than Alice in Wonderland ? That's a red flag sign to embrace a frigging CHANGE in your life.

CHANGE your PERSPECTIVE. CHANGE YOUR HAIRSTYLE.CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE & CHANGE YOUR MAKE UP. HIT THE GYM . GET ACTIVE. WOW. JUST DO IT ALREADY AND OHHH DONT FORGET YOUR LIPSTICK BABY 💄. PUCKER UP & FEEL FABULOUSLY BEAUTIFUL !!!! 💋💋💋

Make that Sucker who ever left you regret his decision of leaving you behind. Playing your heart like a string on a guitar. DUH. After all, some guys don't realize their treasure until it's gone. BE VALUABLE. LOOK GOOD.BE SUCCESSFUL.BE HAPPY IS THE BEST REVENGE FOR YOUR HEARTACHE 💔 Turn the tables around. BE THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY.

SHADES OF PINK.SHADES OF RED. SHADES OF OTHER COLORS. Pout your lips , Put some lipstick on and watch your face come alive. Watch the lipstick wand do its magic tricks. Remember all pain shall pass. You will smile again. You will open your heart and fall in love again. You might not realize it now. But sometimes it's better to get out of a Toxic relationship or Been Rejected by that DoucheBag because somewhere in this mysterious and magical universe, there's that special someone designed just for you. You'll see. Like all the broken hearts you've experienced won't matter anymore because it led you to find that special person. Sometimes life has a funny way of working itself out. If you just believe and help yourself first.

So my dear Girl Friends , What do you Say? It's time for a makeover  physically ,mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Pucker those lips & put some lipstick on 🙂 Till then ......

XOXOXO💋

CONSTELLATIONS IN THE NIGHT SKY

CONSTELLATION. A group of stars forming a symbol of the Zodiac Signs, Handsome gods and goddesses & Mythical Creatures. Like a beautiful canvas in the night sky. Certain stars connect together to form a beautiful symbol in specific time of the year.

ASTRONOMY . I never get the chance to study more about it but it always fascinates me. I love looking at the stars in the night. I think its beautiful and magical. Makes me think about the beautiful Gods & Goddesses in GREEK & ROMAN LITERATURE.

I have a secret. I always adored and worship some Goddesses in my life. VENUS, HECATE, JUNO,FORTUNA,ISIS,LAKSHMI.Its kinda crazy but I really do. I know I love GOD above all since I was raised as a CATHOLIC but somehow my goddesses has always been a part of meand a part of my life. There are times when I light Incense just for them. Not sure why I do but I do it anyways since I cant remember.

MYTHS,LEGENDS,LITERATURE,POETRY ,ARCHITECTURE DESIGNS, ARTWORKS, CALENDARS, CLOCKS , THEATER, MOVIES , LANGUAGES , MEDICINE. The Greeks and The Romans from History influences the whole world's entire lifestyle and civilization!

So Everytime I look at the stars in the night. I remember HISTORY. I remember the beauty of the legends and each of their love stories in my LITERATURE class. I love it so much. I fell in love with it. Whether my goddesses are real or not, they captivated my heart. Thru the years , As I learned more and read more , I developed my very own secret love,curiosity and fascination for the gods and goddesses. Well I am a Nerdy Girl who loves to go to the library , Surprise. Surprise ! 😊

The CONSTELLATIONS in the night sky inspired me to put glowing -light -in-the-dark stars in my bedroom ceiling so I can imagine I am sleeping under the stars each night.

BREATHE.  RELAX.  FIND YOUR ZEN. INVITE POSITIVE THOUGHTS .INNER PEACE.

Amidst the Everyday Chaos & Stress of Life , It is wise to take a moment to recharge your energy with Positive Thoughts. Deep Breaths. Invite Calmness and Inner Peace in your Mind, Body and Soul.

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I AM AN ISLAND GIRL . ALWAYS WILL BE.

It's 3:35am I can't sleep. My mind is wandering and spinning like a windmill these past month. I feel the stress. Who doesn't? I know you do too. This is probably why I really do need a vacation. God help me how. But living in the big city sometimes is very demanding and overwhelming.

Which leads me to think about an island where I grew up. The peaceful escape and my very own paradise which I am lucky enough that my late grandmother's family own half of the entire island. My very own heaven and peaceful escape from my messy universe.

You are probably curious but in the southern most part of the Philippines. There's a little jewel of paradise called Nalus,Kiamba. White sand beach , Japanese Era houses, Water falls, Wild orchids , coconut plantations , rice fields , The best fresh catch of fish and seafood and Lush forest. Simply Exotic and Divine! 

Ahhhh just talking about it makes me wanna sink my feet in the whitest of whitest of sands. Along the shores I can still remember collecting colorful pebbles ,shells and corals that have been washed up ashore  when it's low tide. I can remember drinking fresh coconut juice on hot summer days. The best childhood memories which takes me to a happy place. 

I remember waking up every morning to the chirping sounds of the wild birds up in the mountains. Maybe sounds from the wild exotic colorful parrots , cuckoo birds or I don't know what you call them kind of birds. I used to climb up on the mountains and walked a wild trail picking up fruits and vegetables. And ohhh the wild bananas ! And i thought at one point I have a monkey as a friend. He always followed me and watched me everywhere. Well I know there are wild animals around too. I guess I was lucky to stay out of their way :) the wild boars , crazy giant salamanders and wild anacondas weren't my best choice for a mountain stroll so No thank you. And at nights, I remembered  watching the fireflies glowing up on the mangrove trees and flickering lights like Magic.  It's like Walt Disney fairytale! I used to lay down on the white sands . Falling asleep under a blanket of twinkling stars and the calm waves lulling me to sleep. Like a lullaby in the night.

I guess I will always be an island girl at heart. My grandmother raised me on this very beautiful island . The place where I first believed in Magic. The same place where I watched the promising sunrise at dawn ,the romantic sunsets and the magic of the full moon. These white sands was my escape from reality.  These was also the same place where I picked three pebbles and made three wishes as I threw them back on the blue mystical waters. 

Now I am in the other side of the world. All I can ever do is think about it wishing for sleep and dreaming for the peacefulness because tomorrow is another day. I know it's impossible for me to go there so I wish I will find another paradise another secret place here from where I am. The universe  is a very mysterious and beautiful place. I know I will find one.  Somewhere. Somehow. 

Good night twinkle stars and Sweet dreams........

PRAYERS & DEVOTION TO SAINT JUDE . THE PATRON SAINT OF THE IMPOSSIBLE!

Dear Saint Jude , I humbly pray before you. I made a lot of poor choices in my life that's why I suffered tremendously in the dark. I am praying that you will guide me in everything I do in the name of the Lord, Jesus , Mary and all the angels and saints in heaven. Saint Jude please have mercy on me . I pray for love, happiness, success , good health,peace, courage, wisdom and strength in my life. I know I am a desperate case but I believe in you and God up above. Please bless me and help me move up so I can help myself and help others. Please also bless me with compassion and pure heart. Forever and ever.Thank you Saint Jude. Amen.

O Holy St Jude!
Apostle and Martyr,
great in virtue and rich in miracles,
near kinsman of Jesus Christ,
faithful intercessor for all who invoke you,
special patron in time of need;
to you I have recourse from the depth of my heart,
and humbly beg you,
to whom God has given such great power,
to come to my assistance;
help me now in my urgent need and grant my earnest petition.
I will never forget thy graces and favors you obtain for me
and I will do my utmost to spread devotion to you. Amen.

St. Jude, pray for us and all who honor thee and invoke thy aid.
(Say 3 Our Father's, 3 Hail Mary’s, and 3 Glory Be’s after this.)